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5 Simple Ways How To Get Your Mans Attention

If you are a woman in a relationship or a woman thinking about being in a relationship heres what you need to know!

A man, and by that I mean a real man, will find time to focus on both his work and his woman... BUT if your attention is on everything else, the kids, your work, the television, your mother, being successful etc even a real man will get tired of finding his attention ignored or even worse rejected.

So if you are feeling that youre not getting the attention you want either from your long term partner or from the guy youre dating....heres what you need to do!

Give him the attention HE wants...AND this will definitely look and feel different to the type of attention that you want. The secret is, if you are constantly in a trying to get mode you are most likely going to be disappointed with the results. Men hate demanding women, so much so that their most common reaction is to move away from them. This can look like not coming home from work, playing or watching sport, going to the pub or worst of all looking towards other women to meet their needs. Whatever they are doing they are attempting to get away from your demands and your nagging ask any man, they will tell you its the truth!

As women we all want men to understand what we want and let us be honest here, we continually gripe when we dont get it. With the shoe on the other foot, we as women need to do the same, find out what men need and specifically what our man needs. It makes sense if a man is having his needs met at home that he will want to spend more time there, if he is not (having his needs met that is) he wont its that simple.

Here are the top 5 things you can do to meet any mans needs:

Peace and quiet!! If you have never watched Chris Rock, the comedian, talk about relationships you must, he says men just want to get their foot in the door before we start talking to them Hes right!

Acknowledge him and show him appreciation! Tell your man how great he is and acknowledge him for the way he has handled everything and anything... be it a problem at work, taking the kids somewhere, changing a light bulb...and even the very little things like bringing some shopping in or booking a great restaurant. And if you are thinking he doesnt do any of these things, find something! No matter how small it is - keep acknowledging him for it and watch the change in him It works!

You being happy! Yes, believe it or not HE is happy if you are.... sounds mad, yes? Well heres what Ive learnt about men - unconsciously he feels responsible even if he isnt... and the reverse applies, if you are unhappy he feels responsible too. All he wants is for you to smile so, how would it be that if you stopped worrying, doubting and getting frustrated and you showed up happy with your life that hed be happier too? Again I guarantee you will get a different response.

Caring for his individual whims... Tony loves a tidy house, now that doesnt mean I have to do everything around the house, it just means that if I tidy up he loves it...men are that simple to please... so think about it... what could you do right now that he would love? Maybe its a foot massage or his favorite meal tonight or some more peace and quiet whilst the football is on!

Being interested in his interests...this could be his work challenges, his golf game, his exercise routine, his political view, his mothers illness or his profits spreadsheet etc etc..AND this looks like you Asking Him Questions and really listening, not giving him advice!!

I guarantee if you do any or all of these things that he will feel fantastic and will resume (or start) to give you the kind of attention you want...