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If You Want to Get Somewhere With Your Relationship

By: Ben Needles

Doing our new Relationship Roadmap Quiz takes a long time and people generally are having a hard time doing it.

There are 3 basic reasons whyâ¦

-- It takes some thought about things that you may have been avoiding seriously sitting down and thinking about.

-- Itâs uncomfortable to face the truth.

-- And it takes time that you could be using to catch up with friends, answer email, post another check-in on Twitterâ¦

Face it: weâd all rather go and have a beer and just FORGET about the relationship problems, than sit down and try to figure out what to do about it.

Then thereâs another thing that keeps people from wanting to spend time thinking about the stuff on the Relationship Roadmap Quiz: they live in a fantasy world where relationships â˜magicallyâ happen. Whereâ kisses bring â˜happily ever afterâ and women just â˜naturallyâ want to cook and clean up after a man!

Good luck, buster!

It aint that easy. You see â there is no magic. And that sounds kind of goofy coming from the people at MagicRelationship.com. But the only way to have a magic relationship â is to create it! Thereâs no pill. Thereâs no kiss. Thereâs no 7 dwarfs.

The good news is, however, that not only CAN you create it, thereâs actually a WAY to create it: using the Magic Relationship Method. Learning the 5 Mistakes to avoid, the 4-Step Communication Formula for going forward, and the 7 Keys to rocking your relationship.

You can take the Relationship Roadmap Quiz in the privacy of your own home⦠on the sofa in the living roomâ¦and really figure out where your relationship is now and where youâd like it to go.

Every relationship needs a roadmap. How are you going to get to your happiness if you donât know where you are now, or where your happiness is?

This quiz will show you both.

And, donât worry -- the questionnaire is totally anonymous. You donât have to put your name on it at all if youâd rather not.

The fact that this survey is done in privacy instead of in a face-to-face interview with a psychologist is another reason why itâs so cool. In face-to-face interviews, people change their responses to match what they think the tester â˜wantsâ to hear. We all do it â we were TAUGHT to do it in school.

But at home, alone, after the kids have gone to bed and your partner is faking sleep in the other room (to avoid talking)⦠then youâve got the freedom to say whatâs really on your mind.

Of course, itâs still NOT going to make it EASY. Youâre still going to have to mull through a whole lot of things that youâve probably been avoiding thinking about for a while â or things that you just didnât know WHAT to think about them.

But in the long run â youâll be glad you did the quiz.

We invite you to send your completed questionnaire to our office by fax if youâd like coaching from us. Itâs the first step in figuring out what you need as an individual to get from where you are to where youâd like to be in your relationship.

Another reason to do the questionnaire â even if youâre not looking for coaching right now â is to experience the â˜cathartic releaseâ of clarifying for yourself whatâs going on in your relationship.

Itâs a little weird, but just having let the piece of paper and yourself know what you really think and feel⦠feels good!

And what about the accuracy of the results? Well, weâre asking you what you feel about your relationship, and what you would like to have in your relationship â basically, what you values in relationships are.

And those just arenât â˜rightâ or â˜wrongâ. There just are. Your own feelings and emotions are the only thing that youâll ever know for sure.

So, knowing that âœA problem clearly defined is a problem half-solvedâ¦âgo ahead and take the quiz. You know it will take time, it will bring up a bit of discomfort⦠but itâs totally worth it. And the thing is free, for goshâs sake!

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