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Soul Mate Test: NO is about boundaries and identification.
You have to know who you are if you want to find someone to be perfect for you. As a rule each of us has a need to become a lot clearer about things we choose to have in our lives. This concerns everything, from things that are useful to dealing with distressing feelings. The problem is to achieve that clarity and then to uncover the answers to issues that trouble us. The 7 Words System offers an unpretentious intuitive logic that allows us to achieve a much better appreciation of what exactly we are looking for. It opens with the word No. First and foremost we will need to mark out accurately what it is that actually we don't want, what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.

Soul Mate Test: HELLO is about openness and exchange.
Look around and see what's happening, to you, to others...learn what works for others and think about it carefully. The second stage links with the word Hello. We will certainly need to open up to new ways to see everything if we expect to expand our choice of answers to the challenges that we face. We surely know that? To get something fresh we will need to draw out our sphere of awareness and look where we have not formerly looked up until now. New ideas, new associates, new places and new things are all characteristic of giving reflection to something we have not up to that time faced. It requires that we exchange old for new, that we have something to offer in reasonable return for what are trying to acquire.

Soul Mate Test: THANK YOU is about appreciating and valuing.
How well are you expressing your appreciation? Can you find qualities to admire in people you meet; the best qualities are usually deeper, often hidden. Among all existing choices, some are more attractive than others and we give them a higher significance, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. Repeatedly, we disregard the meaning of what we have, slide unconsciously into ingratitude and are likely to assume what should not be assumed. It's more than simply politeness to show our appreciation for things we regard as valuable; it has a significant effect in helping us to reach our aims. In some unconscious way, we are magnetized to what we pronounce our thanks for, and yet it's equally correct to say that we will be able to draw them to us too. We develop magnetism when we say Thanks and therefore, whenever we do this, we naturally bring things towards us.

Soul Mate Test: GOODBYE is about realization, decision, completion, and moving on.
Are you willing to realize that after finding a soul mate life has changed and will be forever different. Are you willing to change? Goodbye is one of the seven primary words and relates to a progression that has four steps. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. What we are saying goodbye to a possible stage of change, which is to be observed in basic terms as absolute exclusion of a possible path of action that previously we had been progressing towards and in future will not go in for. It is a turning point in our selection of potential outcomes. Goodbye is different from No because it means that we have had connection already, which now needs to end contrasted with No's repudiation in the first place. Firm decisions cut the past away unconditionally and that incisiveness makes an open door that otherwise does not appear.

Soul Mate Test: PLEASE is about intention and cooperation.
How do you cooperate to find harmony? You do have a vision of a successful partnership? The future becomes known according to the lifestyles of the past unless we take control of it and bend it to our desire. To do this forces us to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, clear-cut and optimistic—and transformed into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is a bit unreal and the second is much more centered and willful. For a dream to become real there must be help. Nothing can be achieved without gaining the support of others - this takes expertise, doubtless arguments, even inspiration. It is not always necessary to proffer something such as money or money's worth.

Soul Mate Test: SORRY is about responsibility, remorse, repair and release.
Do you need to take responsibility and feel genuine remorse for your part in any conflicts and tensions that exist? Sorry is the hardest word and the key to real relating. Sorry, the 6th primary word, is best seen as making good harm done because we've been insensitive or neglectful to the circumstances of another. The best plan is to make sure we prevent the need to say it by being considerate sooner. Why? Well it's because anyone we upset may well act against us and diminish our probability of achievement of our goals, so it is obviously shrewder to respect others as well as ourselves. This question is all about being responsible, having some feelings towards anyone we've upset and making recompense when we've made a mistake. Then and only then will it ever be feasible to avoid or patch up offense and let go of the everlasting nastiness that otherwise would increase and be a source of bitterness.

Soul Mate Test: YES is about accepting and surrender.
Sometimes unacceptable behaviour just has to be accepted. How tolerant are you? The final point of our 7 Words classification is to do with acceptance; there are instances when we simply have to agree to what we cannot change. The word is Yes. It would be lovely wouldn't it if we were able to make the world exactly the way we envision it - but in reality we can't. We always need to take what comes, and to take what is not exactly what we asked for.

The paramount habit is to place reliance on the fact that everything in the end turns around to our advantage, that the modifications to our plans are all improvements when understood in the perspective of the longer term. Surely it's not easy to see it when we are still close and attached to our desires of course not! Yet hold your horses and you'll see that the opportune happenings, the surprises and failures are actually the best bits veiled as trouble.

James Burgess 2008

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