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Soul Mate Test: NO is about boundaries and identification.
You have to know who you are if you want to find someone to be perfect for you. By and large most of us need to become a lot clearer about what we are trying to achieve. This is true for everything, from everyday practical matters to dealing with painful feelings. The mystery is to be able to get that clarity and then to find the solutions to issues that trouble us. The 7 Words System offers a easy intuitive means that makes it possible for us to access a greatly improved feeling of what precisely we are trying to find. It starts with No. Primarily we need to name precisely what it is that actually we don't want, what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.

Soul Mate Test: HELLO is about openness and exchange.
Look around and see what's happening, to you, to others...learn what works for others and think about it carefully. The following stage relates to the word Hello. We may well have to make ourselves open to new possibilities if we expect to open out our breadth of keys to the challenges that we face. Is that reasonably logical? To get something new we will need to broaden our horizons and look where we have not previously looked earlier. Novel ideas, new contacts , new situations and new things are clearly characteristic of giving attention to something we have not up to that time faced. So we will have to at some point replace old for new, that can tender something in fair return for what we want to get.

Soul Mate Test: THANK YOU is about appreciating and valuing.
How well are you expressing your appreciation? Can you find qualities to admire in people you meet; the best qualities are usually deeper, often hidden. Between all available choices, some are more desirable than others and we feel we want to treat them as having a greater importance, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. So often, we overlook the worth of what we have, then blindly move into ingratitude and are likely to assume what should not be assumed. It's more than just civility to show our appreciation for things we cherish; it has a major consequence in helping us to succeed in attaining our goals. Unconsciously, we are pulled to what we pronounce our thanks for, and yet it's equally accurate to say that we can to draw them to us too. We develop pull when we say Thanks and therefore, whenever we do this, we effortlessly bring things to us.

Soul Mate Test: GOODBYE is about realization, decision, completion, and moving on.
Are you willing to realize that after finding a soul mate life has changed and will be forever different. Are you willing to change? The word Goodbye is the fourth of the 7 primary words and has to do with a process that has 4 clearly defined steps. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. Goodbye is being said to a particular stage of development, and therefore could be understood basically as full-blown refutation of a viable course of action that we had been progressing towards and in future will not pursue. It is a crossroad point in our selection of possible futures. Goodbye is different from No in that it is clear that there has been a degree of some level of connection already, which now needs to end compared to No's rebuttal in the first place. Proper decisions cut the past away entirely and that incisiveness sets up an open door that otherwise does not come to exist.

Soul Mate Test: PLEASE is about intention and cooperation.
How do you cooperate to find harmony? You do have a vision of a successful partnership? The future opens out according to the habits of what has gone before unless we take control of it and shape it to our will. This calls for to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, clear-cut and positive converted into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is fairly unreal and the second is much more single-minded and controlled. For a vision to become real there must be support. . Nothing can be finished without earning the help of other people - this takes aptitude, probably influence, , even encouragement. It is not always essential to tender something such as money or money's worth.

Soul Mate Test: SORRY is about responsibility, remorse, repair and release.
Do you need to take responsibility and feel genuine remorse for your part in any conflicts and tensions that exist? Sorry, the sixth word, is best seen as repairing damage done if we've been thoughtless or neglectful to the needs or wants of someone else. The best idea is to make sure we avoid the need to say it by being thoughtful sooner. Why? Well it's because anyone we upset could easily be inclined to act against our better purposes and diminish our probability of success, so it is simply more judicious to think about others as well as ourselves. It is all to do with being responsible, having a degree of concern for someone whom we've upset and making penance when we've slipped up. Only then is it possible to prevent the likelihood or heal bitterness and release the unending unpleasantness that otherwise would increase and rankle.

Soul Mate Test: YES is about accepting and surrender.
Sometimes unacceptable behaviour just has to be accepted. How tolerant are you? The concluding stage of our 7 Words structure relates with acceptance; there are occasions when we simply have to bow to what we cannot change. The word is Yes. It would be good wouldn't it if we were able to make the world exactly the way we envision it - but in actual reality we can't. We always need to abide what comes, and to take what is not exactly what we asked for.

The greatest thing is to have conviction that everything sooner or later turns around to our advantage, that the modifications to our plans are all improvements when comprehended in the perspective of the longer term. For sure it's not easy to see it when we are still close and attached to our desires of course not! Yet pause a while and you'll see that the serendipitous occurrences, the surprises and defeats are actually the best bits veiled as misfortune.

James Burgess 2008

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