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The Real Reason "Canned Lines" Never Work On Women

Some guys feel that when they learn "canned lines" from pick-up websites on a woman, these lines should work like a charm no matter the way in which the guys uses them. They could not be more wrong about this if they tried.

When you use any bad opener from anybody, the way in which you say the opener to a girl makes all the difference in the world. For instance, if a guy has absolutely no self-confidence and barely squeaks out any canned opener, he is doomed to failure.

When he tells a girl, "I would just love to get to know a hot girl like you much better in a more intimate place than this bar", while using poor body language that expresses to the woman that he is a downtrodden man without any redeeming qualities, every woman he will ever tell that opener to will shoot him down in flames.

Is that because the opener is totally cheesy and over-used in every bar in America? While that is partly true, the reason it will not work on most women is because of the WAY the man said it, not in the phrase itself.

If this same line was used on a woman at a noisy bar in which the man strolled up to her dressed in a nice shirt and slacks, with a very confident stride and a sly smile on his face let loose with that same opener and delivered it using strong vocal patterns, most women would respond positively to him.

STRONG BODY LANGUAGE IS KEY TO EXHIBITING SELF-CONFIDENCE

Even if you are not sure about the exact opener you should be using on a woman that is standing right in front of you, as long as you have already shown her strong self-confidence exuding from you by using strong body language and deep voice tones, you are already half-way there on your way to a successful phone number close or kiss close.

If you are using lines that you honestly are feeling at the moment of that first interaction with a girl, she will sense your honesty exuding from you and she will respond to almost anything you say to her with positive feelings. Women have a much more innate ability to figure out exactly what a guy's intentions are before you even open your mouth.

Another big issue concerning using canned pick-up lines and routines that do not expressly show her your own strong personality is the fact that these lines have absolutely nothing to do with the environment and circumstances that you and the girl you are approaching happen to be in.

For instance, if a girl is at the mall and she is window-shopping for a tight dress that is displayed at a store called "Cinnamon Girl", would you use an opener such as "I've never seen such a beautiful girl in a mall like this. Where are you from?"

That opener makes no sense to her reality because why would she be in a crappy mall as compared to a really nice, modern mall that you will probably be seeing a lot of hot women in? Also, when you talk crap about a place that she is already in, you are really saying that she has no taste when it comes to shopping. Also, by using this generic opener, you are not using her window-shopping as something unique only to her.

PICK YOUR OPENERS VERY CAREFULLY

A good opener to use on this girl that is staring into this store window would be: "I see you have a really good sense of fashion when it comes to picking out skirts for yourself. I really like the one you have on, but the one in the window is the right amount of flash that suits your personality much better."

Remember that great openers are only as good as the man saying them, and you will much better off than when you were using canned lines from other "Pick-Up Gurus" before you started creating great inner game for yourself